Sad News and Good News UPDATE

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UPDATE
An update for those of you who are interested.
First thank you to those of you who commented, and gave support or suggestions :heart:

As I thought, noone had bothered to contact him... :roll: he called me Yesterday, I told him what I knew. As to be expected, he was a little upset by the news. As anyone who loves their Mother would be.
I really didnt like being the one to tell him bad news. But sometimes these things need to be done right? And to be honest, much better coming from me, Im able to say it in a way which he isnt made to feel like its his fault.  He was very thankful for letting him know what was going on.
This morning he called again ( he calls just about every day ) told me he was allowed to call the Waikato hospital, and talk to his Mum. So thats really good. She reassured him that she is ok, and will be out of hospital tomorrow ( day before Christmas ) Again, really good news.
She didnt give him any details as to what happened etc. But said she has wrote him a letter explaining everything in that. So he was in a much better head space today thank goodness :heart:

Have a great Christmas if you do Christmas, and a Happy holidays to all who dont. Or Happy what ever it is called where ever you are in the world. :heart:


Good news first!

Johno called me this morning all excited.
For those of you who dont know, Johno is my partner and hes in prison at the moment. He has one more course to do in there, then he can get out on Parole, so he will be home around October 2012 YAY! :excited:
Anyways, I already knew that news lol,
Johnos EX Girlfriend sent him a phone card so he could call her. Johno and Sam ( his EX ) have a 5 year old daughter together Shardae is her name.
Sam send Johno a phone card every now and again so he can call his daughter. Johno got a phone card yesterday, so he called Sam, asks to talk to Shar, Sam says shes not there, but she needs to talk to him. After a little blah blah blah. She says to him, when he gets out, he wants him to have Shar. Not that she doesnt want her, and doesnt love her of course. But Shar is just too much for her to handle. Shes "out of control" which has a lot to do with how she has been brought up by Sam. Sam knows only too well that its her own fault. The two of them had a good chat about things, he then ended with "Ill talk to Debbie and see " of course I dont mind at all. Its what Johno and I have been talking about for a long time. We had every intention of trying to get Shar to live with us. So thats great news :D

Now the Bad News.

As you read above, I talked to Johno this morning, so clearly he didnt know anything about this bad news, or he would have mentioned something to me.
I was just looking on Johnos sisters Facebook account not too long ago.
Their Mother is in hospital. She has had a heart attack. :( :sniff: She is up at Waikato hospital at the moment. shes only in her 40's 47 I think she is if I remember correctly.
Johno's Sister is waiting by the phone at the moment to hear news as to whats going on. I think they will be going up there tomorrow to see her. Looks like she will be in there for Christmas. She is alive though, so thats something at lest. She had a turn on the way up to the hospital though. Which is what has got the family a little worried.
The thing is, clearly noone has told Johno this news yet.
Dont you think he has the right to be told?
When he calls me next, do you think I should tell him? I cant not tell him when I know this information.  But I know it will really upset him. But I have to tell him right???
If I dont, I have no idea when his family would tell him. or even if they would tell him.
What do you all think?
Your input would be great.

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Thank you so much for the feature baby! :hug: